Thursday, January 16, 2020

REVENGE IS A DISTRACTION ON THE ROAD TO YOUR RECOVERY. Revenge, it consumed me, once upon a time. My imagination conjured visions of those who hurt me in the most gripping stories of pain. In mind's eye they were put through all the stories of hell people narrated. However, I didn't have the courage to take it ahead. They took over my thoughts, the agony reflected in the exhausted body of mine. The sallow skin, the negative talk. I whip-lashed myself more, unknowingly. Till I realised the folly and futility of it all. Nothing changes till I change. I refocused and decided that all the while I was looking at them and hoping for them to fail, I failed miserably. I stopped growing emotionally, spiritually. My health was a pale version of who I was. I changed my filters. I made a decision that if I wanted to grow the attention had to be on me. If I wanted to win, I had to look inward and work on my strategy of victory. If I wanted to be win friends I had to remove the cloak of bitterness and be who I was meant to be. The moment the fetters were cast off, I grew. I blossomed. I have no regret. In fact, I just can't take revenge anymore. It's a colossal waste of my time. I'm more eager and selfish to focus all on me and how I can shine. Why wouldn't I? Why wouldn't you? #revenge #anger #viciousness #wasteoftime #insecure #focusonyourgoals #farzanasuri #victorycoach #lifecoach #numerologist #coaching #mentoring #counselling #personalcoach #careercoach #relationshipcoach #motivationalspeaker #corporatetrainer #pathfinder #pathtovictory